WARNING: Serious Mommy Rambling AheadOh, how quickly things change. Just a few days ago, it was Sweet Sunday. And now here we are being terrible 2's. Do they somehow know they are supposed to become difficult once they turn 2? I need serious mommy help!! One of them is refusing to eat her main course. She'll eat all fruits and vegetables, but not the meat -- not willingly anyway. She will put it in her mouth and chew, but won't swallow it for a very long time. Yesterday, it took 1 hour (and I'm not exaggerating) for her to eat one little chicken tender. After much reasoning and a lot of yelling, I finally dropped my face into my hands and said a quick prayer for patience. When I looked up, both of them had their hands over their face, apparently thinking we were playing peek-a-boo. So that lightened the moment somewhat... but still didn't do much for my patience. Mr. D has suggested me not feeding her until she is really hungry, but is that the right thing to do?? Just start skipping meals??
The new favorite word is "NO!". "No" to this, "No" to that. Perhaps that one is my fault. Too many "No's" coming out of my mouth. But that's my job to instruct them on what they can and can't do -- right? Oh, and the independence they are starting to show. I'm not allowed to help them do anything... yet they can't do it themselves, but they are going to fuss about it until it gets done -- completely frustrating. I'm thinking about just leaving the room when that happens. And them not listening to simple commands, like "come here" -- the fact that I have to tell them to do something multiple times before they will actually do it, that can't be good...
And potty training...I actually thought we would start training this week. That lasted for about 3 hours. It amazes me that they know how to do everything possible regarding using the potty,
ie. put the lid up and down, sit on it, flush it, unroll all the toilet paper, but yet give you the deer in the headlights look when you try to explain to them what they are really supposed to be doing. So I will wait a few months before trying that again. I have to get a better plan anyway. Maybe training one at a time would be better. Looking for mommy suggestions there too!!
So I've purchased some large wooden utensils -- and not for the purpose of cooking! I figure I've got to get these attitudes under control and fast. I've been reading "Shepherding a Child's Heart" which a friend suggested and it says that my children are supposed to obey me, and if they don't, God commands me to discipline them. So a little discipline it will be... for me growing up, it was belts and peach switches, but I figure a wooden spoon can have the same effect too.